Finn

Engels

How do I describe myself? Where to begin? Well, adventurous, curious, religious, committed to growth and change. Look, I realise I’m meant to put in a lot of personal salesmanship and buzz words, but that’s not really my thing. Which, I suppose, gives you a bit more insight into me. I consider myself a leader - I write and run workshops for men about masculinity, particularly Catholic manhood. I am committed to helping others, particularly in my counselling work with families and youth “in trouble”. I have always been deeply spiritual, and am probably only recently coming back to the Church after many years away exploring other paths, only to find myself back home.

I have spent many years as a singer and songwriter in various different bands, and I am also an archer and SCUBA diver, so like being out in the wild, exploring and testing myself.

I am a father of an amazing young daughter who spends her time between myself and her mother. To those for whom that’s a dealbreaker, well, I can happily live with that :-)

What else? I guess I’m a “big picture” sort of guy, not really great with small talk and frivolity. Well ... not usually, anyway.

And what am I looking for in a relationship? Well, gone are the days I must admit I wasn’t a loyal or committed partner, always looking for something and someone new. I think it took me a long time to grow up on that score. Yes, my expectations of myself and those I love are high ... another deal breaker for many, I know. Yes, I am looking for “the real thing” and am not interested anymore in playing around with anything less.

So, how would I describe myself? I love this quote from Walt Whitman, “I am large, I contain multitudes.” That probably nails it :-)

Weegschaal

Gemiddeld

6' 4 (1.93 m)

Groen

Blank

Single

Ja - Soms Thuis

Niet Zeker

Glimlach

Zichtbare tatoeage

Donkerbruinharig

Geen huisdieren

Nee

Bachelor

Voltijd

Iets Anders

Behaviour Support Specialist

Tussen de €60.000 en €75.000

Met kind(eren)

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Cool

Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk, Raar

Religie / Spiritualiteit, Gezin, Fitness, Lezen, Sport, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Films, Reizen, Vissen / Jagen, Kamperen, Vrijwilligerswerk

Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Extreme sporten, Een boek lezen, Naar een museum gaan

Dinner, walking, talking. The second date would be the interesting one ...

Cave diving, learning a new instrument.

Een herrieschopper, Cool

Christelijk

Een keer per week

To improve, to grow, to share with a partner travelling on the same road.

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch

Nieuws, Documentaires, Educatief, Films, Sport

Science Fiction, Romantiek, Drama, Gezin, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Metal, Klassiek, Blues, Ambient

Nieuws, Mythologie, Biografie, Klassiek , Fantasy, Fictie, Gezondheid, Geschiedenis, Horror, Humor, Natuur, Filosofie, Politiek, Wetenschappelijk, Poëzie, Religieus, Sport, Ik ben een schrijver, Bovennatuurlijk

Ah. Well. All sorts ...

Gevatheid, Flirterig, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie

Depth, honesty, curiosity, passion, intimacy, attractiveness

Intimiteit, Vastigheid, Een Huwelijk