I am a postdoctoral research scientist living and working in London. I love this beautiful city with all its eccentricities and charm. So apart from engineering a few spare parts on the weekdays, I do have some great hobbies. I learn to play the flute on the weekends, write amateur poetry, dabble with paints on ceramics and cook. I love antiques, leather, good food and clothes. I am thoughtful, passionate, sensitive and opinionated -- but only in a nice way !

Above all I am Catholic and I want to seek to be formed in the image of Christ. The pathway to God is not fuelled by perfectionism, which is often filled with the tyranny of shoulds and oughts. But it is to simply 'Believe in the One Whom He has sent' and to do everything for Ad Majorem Dei Gloriam i.e, all for the greater glory of God.

My vocation as a Christian wife would be to lead this marriage to holiness. Often times it involves overcoming my own barriers. I came across a beautiful line somewhere which read If I were to encounter the ugliest version of myself to date would I demonstrate mercy, will I be known for pride or ignorance? Can I constantly learn and humble myself, never afraid to apologise?

This is when I would like someone to deepen my faith, step into their God given destiny,so we can walk in the one way- the Christ Way! Someone to combat this journey of spiritual life, which is full of hardship, adventure, mystery and bliss. It requires blood, sweat and tears, so not for the faint-hearted !! A husband, A Christian gentleman who loves the way Christ loves His bride, The church, A faithful son of the church and above all whose purpose in life is to be a saint and lead me to becoming one as well. So no pressure then :) !!

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